A couple of weeks ago, I was reflecting on what I think are the key ingredients of connection. Well with all of the events going on around us in the world at the moment, I have been reflecting on what I think is another key ingreedient of connection, and that is our ability to ask questions.
Read moreThe Gift of Listening
One of the things I have been reflecting on this week, is just what it means to be connected. Every week at the end of my posts I encourage my readers to “stay connected”, and yet at times, I think we can easily forget what the key ingredients of connection actually are.
Read moreNew Kinds of Gratitude Practices
So, picture this! I’m lying in bed late last night and flicking through YouTube to find something which might just send me to sleep. I happened to stumble upon a Podcast by Andrew Huberman, and of course the opposite happened; I was suddenly wide awake and interested.
Read moreCoping with Social Anxiety
Social Anxiety is something that a lot of people feel, but is not something easily talked about. It affects adults, teenagers and even young children; it is, in fact, a very common mental health condition.
Read moreEveryone Grieves in their Own Way
Recently, I was speaking to a client about the recent death of a family member. She was talking to me about the way that different members of her family were involving themselves in the rituals after the death, and it put me in mind of something i have mentioned here before, but which we often forget as we grieve; grief can show itself in so many different ways, and yet still be grief.
Read moreWhy we Need to be careful of the "At Leasts"
So, picture this! I’m sitting in my counselling room, with someone who has lost most of his useful vision, and a half of one leg, to diabetes. He’s 53 years old, and what’s worse? It’s all happened in the last six months.
Read moreDropping the Shouldisms
So picture this … Yesterday morning, I was sitting with a client, talking about some of the things, both big and small, which get her down. She talked about how, working from home nowadays, she feels like she should be doing more on her breaks … she should be cleaning the bathroom, preparing for dinner, putting a load of washing on, or moving it to the washing line.
Read moreSome Points about Anxiety
One of the things that I often explore with people in my private practice, is the whole topic of anxiety; the different ways in which it shows up for people, and also, how it might be managed more effectively. Of course it's not surprising that it appears regularly in my counselling room, when just a quick glance at Beyond Blue tells us that every year two million Australians suffer from anxiety.
Read moreWhat is Disenfranchised Grief
One of the things that I often see in my practice as a counsellor, is that there is a lot of grief out there, which goes unacknowledged. Of course I'm going to say that — to acknowledge grief is one of my life's passions. Fortunately however, I'm not the first, and I'm certainly not alone in noticing it.
Read moreThe Challenge of Anxiety
As this weekend draws to a close, I find myself noticing that there seems to be a lot of anxiety around at the minute, related to upcoming events.
Read moreExperimenting with Gratitude Journaling
A few weeks ago, I was at the end of a long training course in Sydney, when the topic of Gratitude Journaling came up. Now everyone will probably have heard of this concept; it comes in many forms, but the idea is generally that you take notice of things that have made you grateful, each and every day.
Read moreLife is Difficult
I often talk about how sometimes the steps that we think will be big, can sometimes not be as hard to take as we first thought, and how then the challenge becomes "How do I take the next step?”
Read moreSmall Steps
Sometimes it’s the small steps that we need to take, which are just as important in moving us closer to our dreams, as are those big leaps which are often a part of them too.
Read more6 Funny Things about Life with an Assistance Animal
Many of you will know through meeting me, either professionally or personally, that I negotiate most places with an assistance animal, or specifically a Guide Dog.
Well some of my blog topics are on the serious side I know; so this time I wanted to share with you another aspect of my life, and at the same time maybe make you laugh with me, at some of the funny things that happen as I navigate the world with one of my dogs.
Read more6 Things to Do When a Friend Is Diagnosed
When we hear the words breast cancer or MS, brain tumour or melanoma, I think it's true they can strike fear into our hearts. When it's one of our nearest and dearest, the news can be crippling.
We are suddenly searching for the right words to say, wondering what it is going to mean for them and their once so easily imagined future, but also wondering what it's going to mean for us.
So, I wanted to share with you some tips for how to deal with a friend being diagnosed, that I have gleaned over my years of working in the chronic illness and disability arena.
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